How TikTok made therapy cool and why traditional therapy is struggling to keep up

How TikTok made therapy cool and why traditional therapy is struggling to keep up

In 2025, it’s almost impossible to spend five minutes on TikTok without hearing someone casually reference “setting boundaries,” or “trauma bonds.” Tiktok therapy is taking over.

What used to be clinical jargon is now the language of memes, storytimes, and viral skits.
Therapy-speak is now a trend, not just that, it’s becoming digital culture, especially among Gen Z.

Mental health stigma vs. Gen Z openness

Historically, therapy was something to hide, whispered about, if mentioned at all.
Today? It’s a proud flex, openly shared online.

According to the American Psychological Association’s 2022 Stress in America report, 91% of Gen Z adults report stress-related symptoms, yet they are the most proactive generation when it comes to seeking therapy and mental health resources.

Psychiatrist Dr. Jessica Gold notes:

“Gen Z grew up with mental health conversations happening openly online. Therapy isn’t a secret anymore; it’s a badge of honor.”

This openness paved the way for TikTok’s massive influence.

TikTok therapy in Nigeria

In Nigeria, TikTok therapy trends have taken on an even deeper meaning.

Despite Nigeria having the highest number of people with depression in Africa (over 7 million, according to WHO 2018), mental health services remain severely underfunded, with less than 4% of the national health budget allocated to mental health.

The shortage of clinical psychologists, psychiatric hospitals, and affordable therapy options leaves millions without support.

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As a result, young Nigerians are turning to TikTok, Instagram, and other social platforms for mental health education and emotional validation.

Organisations like Mentally Aware Nigeria Initiative (MANI), as well as startups like MyTherapist.ng and SheWritesWoman, are leveraging digital tools to fill this gap, offering bite-sized therapy education, peer support groups, and affordable online counseling.

Much like their global peers, Nigerian Gen Zers value relatability, language accessibility, and cultural sensitivity when engaging with mental health content.

But here, it’s not just about convenience, it’s about survival when formal help is financially or physically out of reach.

Are social media therapists helpful or harmful?

While social media therapy education has clear benefits, it isn’t without risks.

Clinical psychologist Dr. Thema Bryant warns: “TikTok therapy can empower people with language and validation, but it can also oversimplify complex issues or delay real treatment.”

Concerns include:

  • Over-reliance on generic advice
  • Self-diagnosis without clinical evaluation
  • Misinformation from unlicensed creators

Still, for many young Nigerians and Africans, even imperfect digital help is better than none at all.

How therapy is adapting

Rather than resisting, professional therapy is evolving:

  • Teletherapy options are growing
  • Social media-friendly therapists are using memes, humour, and storytelling
  • Affordable microtherapy sessions are rising
  • Mental health apps tailored for African audiences are being built

Globally, platforms like BetterHelp crossed $1 billion in revenue in 2023, showing the huge demand for digital-first mental health solutions — a trend Nigeria is starting to mirror.

TikTok therapy questions answered

Is TikTok therapy a replacement for real therapy?

No. It’s an educational tool, not personalised treatment.

Can TikTok help normalise seeking therapy in Nigeria?

Yes, by breaking stigma and introducing emotional language, it lowers barriers to seeking professional help.

How can Nigerians use TikTok therapy responsibly?

Use it as motivation to seek real support, not as the final solution.

Therapy for a digital-first generation

In Nigeria and beyond, therapy is poised to evolve into:

  • AI-assisted mental health tools (chatbots, emotional wellness apps)
  • Community-based digital therapy groups (like WhatsApp or Telegram groups)
  • Culturally-sensitive mental health storytelling for mass engagement

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